This is a continuation of my previous post. I am putting the same introduction up for those that have not read the previous post so that it will make some sense.
Recently I felt compelled to write letters. And I still feel compelled to. After such a moving event I feel that it is necessary to make sure others can experience this event as I have or at least learn a lesson from this event.
Recently a movie came out on Lifetime with the title "Prayers for Bobby." This movie is very moving and informative. It gives one the perspective of a family and more so, a mother's perspective of how to handle a person such as myself--gay. Seeing this movie had a great deal of parallelisms to my life. Seeing a mother and the church condemn her child because of who he is just rips my heart to shreds! This movie gives an accurate and realistic perspective of how one person can affect a young person's life, especially in the reconciliation stage in life. Because this movie does such a good job of portraying how a young person can be affected, I decided to write a letter to each aunt in my extended family, the campus pastor at school, and my vicar back home. This post contains the letter to my vicar back home. He is a fairly young guy. Young enough to start a new career after having a very well paying one. Also young enough to still have youngsters of his own running around the house.
So here goes, read the letter and pay close attention to the quote at the end of the letter! It is the most memorable quote I have ever seen, certainly worth remembering! If I have ever carved anything into my memory, this quote is something that is etched permanently to my memory.
Thursday, January 28, 2009
Dear Vicar D,
I am writing you this letter as part of the movie I am sending you. I am sending this movie to people I think would benefit from seeing it. The movie’s title is Prayers for Bobby. You may have heard of it or you may not have. Regardless of whether you have or have not, I think it would be beneficial to your calling as a Pastor.
Prayers for Bobby has one particular social issue that is becoming more and more apparent as the years go by. It even affects my family and me. Even though the subject of this movie hits close to home for me, that is not the reason I am sending and asking you to watch this movie. I personally believe that there are people in my life that I know who really need to see this movie. I think this movie would be beneficial for you because as a Pastor, it is your job to bring the child of God closer to Him, and this movie will hopefully give you another perspective to consider when doing that.
I am a firm believer in what is presented in this movie. Seeing a parent go from condemning their child to Hell to accepting them and loving them, and knowing that God loves them even more no matter who they are or what they do. Being a Lutheran has had a major impact on my life. Knowing that we are saved by grace through faith in God has given me great comfort. Knowing that I was a sinner at conception and there was nothing I could do to change that helped me realize that I will always be a sinner no matter what I do. Knowing all that, I now know that when I accepted Jesus as my savior at my baptism and again at my confirmation I was saved from all my sins and inequities. This is something I want everyone to know, especially youth in my situation. Even more so, the youth who are looking for acceptance and love for any issue in their life.
I now ask you to watch this movie. I also want you to feel free to contact me with question or concerns. If you do decide to watch this movie, please keep an open mind and an open heart, I know you can do that as a Pastor.
In conclusion, remember this quote as you watch this movie and in everyday life, especially when you are with your family and your congregation:
“Before you echo Amen in your home or place of worship, think and remember. A child is listening.” -Mary Griffith
Your friend in Christ,
Jeffrey Mayefske
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Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Letters I
Recently I felt compelled to write letters. And I still feel compelled to. After such a moving event I feel that it is necessary to make sure others can experience this event as I have or at least learn a lesson from this event.
Recently a movie came out on Lifetime with the title "Prayers for Bobby." This movie is very moving and informative. It gives one the perspective of a family and more so, a mother's perspective of how to handle a person such as myself--gay. Seeing this movie had a great deal of parallelisms to my life. Seeing a mother and the church condemn her child because of who he is just rips my heart to shreds! This movie gives an accurate and realistic perspective of how one person can affect a young person's life, especially in the reconciliation stage in life. Because this movie does such a good job of portraying how a young person can be affected, I decided to write a letter to each aunt in my extended family, the campus pastor at school, and my vicar back home. This post will contain the letter to the campus pastor at school...for the sake of the school's image (and we know how important this image can be; so much so I could get seriously reprimanded for posting the name in any bad light) I have decided to leave the name out. For some of you though, you will know which school I am talking about.
So here goes, read the letter and pay close attention to the quote at the end of the letter! It is the most memorable quote I have ever seen, certainly worth remembering! If I have ever carved anything into my memory, this quote is something that is etched permanently to my memory.
Thursday, January 28, 2009
Dear Pastor Smith,
I am writing you this letter as part of the movie I am sending you. I am sure you know some details about my life that you have found out through fellow staff members or fellow students. It does not bother me that you know. I actually am glad you know. However, that is not the purpose of this note. The purpose is to show you a view many in my situation have experienced. It is also to show you that there are just more than people like myself that are struggling to get the acceptance of their parents. There are many youth in the world that have something to say, but they are too scared to say it. They are scared because of what the church says about their lives. They are scared about what their parents and families are going to say when they tell them. This movie accurately portrays how one of the many subjects these youth are afraid to tell their parents about, affects their lives and in turn affects their family’s lives.
I personally think this movie is very moving and portrays how the need for social acceptance and love, or the lack there of, effects youth and their family’s lives. I also believe that, because it portrays this situation so well, it should be used as an example in some sort of psychology, sociology, or religion class. Everyone should have the opportunity to see this movie. Outside of the issue portrayed in this movie, it can be used as a template for how other problems can affect these people.
I now ask you to watch this movie. It is called Prayers for Bobby. If you decide to watch this movie please keep an open mind and an open heart. As a Pastor of the Lutheran Church, I feel it is important that you see it and use the lessons presented in this movie to further benefit your calling as a presenter of the Lord’s word to God’s children. Please feel free to contact me and discuss this with me. I would like nothing more to help people, particularly young people, who are in my situation or a situation similar to mine.
In conclusion, a quote that I think is particularly important to remember when watching this movie and in everyday life:
“Before you echo Amen in your home or place of worship, think and remember. A child is listening.” -Mary Griffith
Your friend in Christ,
Jeffrey Mayefske
Recently a movie came out on Lifetime with the title "Prayers for Bobby." This movie is very moving and informative. It gives one the perspective of a family and more so, a mother's perspective of how to handle a person such as myself--gay. Seeing this movie had a great deal of parallelisms to my life. Seeing a mother and the church condemn her child because of who he is just rips my heart to shreds! This movie gives an accurate and realistic perspective of how one person can affect a young person's life, especially in the reconciliation stage in life. Because this movie does such a good job of portraying how a young person can be affected, I decided to write a letter to each aunt in my extended family, the campus pastor at school, and my vicar back home. This post will contain the letter to the campus pastor at school...for the sake of the school's image (and we know how important this image can be; so much so I could get seriously reprimanded for posting the name in any bad light) I have decided to leave the name out. For some of you though, you will know which school I am talking about.
So here goes, read the letter and pay close attention to the quote at the end of the letter! It is the most memorable quote I have ever seen, certainly worth remembering! If I have ever carved anything into my memory, this quote is something that is etched permanently to my memory.
Thursday, January 28, 2009
Dear Pastor Smith,
I am writing you this letter as part of the movie I am sending you. I am sure you know some details about my life that you have found out through fellow staff members or fellow students. It does not bother me that you know. I actually am glad you know. However, that is not the purpose of this note. The purpose is to show you a view many in my situation have experienced. It is also to show you that there are just more than people like myself that are struggling to get the acceptance of their parents. There are many youth in the world that have something to say, but they are too scared to say it. They are scared because of what the church says about their lives. They are scared about what their parents and families are going to say when they tell them. This movie accurately portrays how one of the many subjects these youth are afraid to tell their parents about, affects their lives and in turn affects their family’s lives.
I personally think this movie is very moving and portrays how the need for social acceptance and love, or the lack there of, effects youth and their family’s lives. I also believe that, because it portrays this situation so well, it should be used as an example in some sort of psychology, sociology, or religion class. Everyone should have the opportunity to see this movie. Outside of the issue portrayed in this movie, it can be used as a template for how other problems can affect these people.
I now ask you to watch this movie. It is called Prayers for Bobby. If you decide to watch this movie please keep an open mind and an open heart. As a Pastor of the Lutheran Church, I feel it is important that you see it and use the lessons presented in this movie to further benefit your calling as a presenter of the Lord’s word to God’s children. Please feel free to contact me and discuss this with me. I would like nothing more to help people, particularly young people, who are in my situation or a situation similar to mine.
In conclusion, a quote that I think is particularly important to remember when watching this movie and in everyday life:
“Before you echo Amen in your home or place of worship, think and remember. A child is listening.” -Mary Griffith
Your friend in Christ,
Jeffrey Mayefske
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